How do you move
forward when you’re tied to the past? At
what point is it “unhealthy” to keep commiserating about what could have been,
should have been… I’m convinced that the
more one ruminates, the more they are ineffective and disconnected from what
might lie ahead. Naturally, there is a
future of some sort, but the landscape uncertain. Certainty doesn’t avail itself until it does…
But what if the questions, tension, and turmoil that torment us are somehow, some way of fate urging us to not give up, to keep holding
on…..
The reality is things have changed, people have moved on
with their lives and we're just another compartment of their past.
We have to change, adapt… survive… and wait for Certainty to
avail itself.
There is "Certainty" that a life lived as a dedicated father, husband, teacher, family member and friend will never be overshadowed by a single lapse of judgement. There is "Certainty" when those who love you, remain at your side, even as you face the most challenging times of your life. It is a "Certainty" that you are strong enough to face life head-on, then resume a life dedicated to teaching others.
ReplyDeleteWow.... never in a million years would have figured this out! Thanks again. Life can be quite unpredictable sometimes.....
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